I've never dated someone with that large of an age gap, but this would constantly be on my mind. Funny you should ask that. I am one of those people. We had so much in common, love of silly zombie movies, hiking, adventuring, crazy coding creations, and volunteering. Just know that it most likely won't be a long term relationship. Your daughter will thanx u in the future. That's not much of an age difference at all, I've got no problem with it.
If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number. Therefore he comes here to accomodate my schedule and spends the night etc. If you're looking for something more long-term and serious, you might want to go for someone a bit older. These are just thoughts based on experience. By midway through the date she was already getting clingy had mentioned that she was happy to have finally found a boyfriend. My advice is to be supportive of where she is in her life, and let her know what is going on in yours. I am not sure what to do here.
I though he loved me and I thought I loved him so when we broke up I was really hurt. So perhaps you would like to consider ending all the possibilities of getitng with her now, before you become so attached. Going into a relationship with such baggage isn't the best way to start something healthy. I know you sometimes don't get choose who you love. For me, I found the best age group in the 25-27 range.
And most of all talk to her about it! I know it wouldnt be a big deal if she was 27 and I was 35, but 19 seems so young to me. I still see places where she can grow confidence, responsibility, etc. Many times you'll have a less mature 25 year old guy and a very mature 19 year old girl and they'll really hit it off. For me, and , it all begins with a number. Just make sure you're both going into this with open eyes, because she might be into you now but at 18 she's just starting with freedom.
In the last few years I'm 32 , I've dated women aged 20 - 35. I'm indifferent towards the whole thing, I'm on the fence to be honest, not sure if I could do it or not. The only problem is I am afraid I may be too old for her or she is too young for me ha ha. If you love your daughter you should do everyhting you can to prevent her from getting hurt. And I obviously have the matching theory as to why to go along with it naturally, it involves being the younger sister. It could all turn out just great. He wants different things then I do, i'm still young and being realistic, I want to enjoy my youth, go out, have fun.
Of course, you can make anything work. A female reader, anonymous, writes 31 May 2009 : i think it is not right to date or marry someone that oplder than you. There is a ten year age difference between my mother and her boyfriend, they are incredibly happy together, after a certain point age doesn't really matter too much as long as the two involved have the same mind set, maturity level and they are happy together and understand what the age difference means as it applies to them. Was having an interesting convo with my friends the other day and they didn't seem to have a problem with it. Is he a nice genuine guy or a real bad-ass.
He is in love with me. A female reader, anonymous, writes 14 December 2005 : You must let her know what you want. She still being a bit of a hold out about sex? Unfortunately, I had to break it off with him because of what our families thought. You are her parent and you should be the authority! I've had bad experiences dating girls younger than me before. When two people come together, sometimes their personalities just click and emotions just run the course from there. Hey and call me soon! We are very open with each other and express our emotions and opinions all the time. He is weery about it, and i kno the age thing bothers him, because hes always worried about what people will think, my parents know about us and are happy for me, because they know im very mature for my age i got my first place when i was 15 and have lived on my own as a single mother since, i start college in the fall and am goig to be an accountant.
We're friends now, but we legit had a few years off of even basic contact. They threatened to call the cops on me. Just know that it isn't a big deal, especially considering your age difference and the the results are commonly relative. Can't say that when the ages were much closer. I don't know if I would date someone young enough to be an undergrad when I am 27 but I def don't see anything immoral about it.
Why would he deny himself something he wants? I told him they would love him, and once the met him they did and still do. We both look the same age, so no one suspects anything. We hang out almost every weekend now, and talk to each other every night, for hours. A female reader, anonymous, writes 8 November 2010 : i'm an 18 year old girl dating a 26 year old guy. What happens when your child is 20 years old and no longer a child? They've been together for 2-3 years now. A female reader, anonymous, writes 17 March 2008 : im 16. I was dating a 22 year old when I was 14 and my parents didn't really do much about it.