Stay away trust they will say anything to get u in bed trust. Not getting enough sleep has been known to cause obesity, which is not desirable for a police officer. If nothing else, remember that your cop wasn't born that way. He's kindhearted and people just misunderstands him at times. He encourages me to be more active and learn new things which I love though. I believe the key is be open with eachother and with yourself. He is currently working on a PhD so that when he retires, he will be able to easily get another job.
Most were married and their wives love them very much! A female reader, anonymous, writes 10 October 2010 : hello. It isnt just men who dith trouble with the women theyre dating being officers. So obviously, some of our problems stem not just the fact that he's a cop. These men would be a bit too over-protective, because they don't want you to get hurt. I mean, every day he's walking the street means danger for him and let me tell you, and that's a lot of pressure on someone. So their gfs and wives can often feel very lonely. I would agree with many of the responses that dating him is somewhat challenging.
He is the sweetest, most attentive person. I guess I'm answering your question merely to vent my frustrations, but hey, it might help you as well, so here goes: He just worked a 13 day week, and where is he now? We tell our funny stories and seek comfort when needed. I love my job but women are just easy for us officers to get. You really have nothing to worry about. It doesn't matter whose fault it is, you've gotta give him a break. It's hard for him to seperate his job from his life. If you want to be with a cop, go for it.
A female reader, , writes 9 September 2010 : I have been dating a cop for a long time now. By: Robert Vaux Police officers have an extremely tough job that may involve lengthy time and tough circumstances. We see each other when we can. Dating a police officer can be stressful and can cause you a great deal of worry. Also, it is extremely difficult for him to admit he is wrong or to apologize. God bless you as you look for love! Police officers also find themselves working a lot of holidays. Somebody has to patrol the streets at all times, and that means shift work.
In fact, that's not the case. Many positions involve patrolling around the clock and this means a police officer is likely to work shifts — four days on and four days off — which can easily play havoc with your social arrangements and life plans. You may find that irregular hours fit in with your own unique lifestyle or professional responsibilities. They see domestic abuse all the time. This together with the fact that guns, knives and bombs are some of the most common things they handle everyday is enough to make any other professional go white with fear.
Or you could discover that this is one area of consideration that will never be compatible with your needs. He makes sure I'M comfortable. I have a guy from my old work place that calls and emails me and we go out occasionally but I am afraid to let my guard down and let it go further. After many promises to cut back on the porn and self gradification i returned unexpectley to find him viewing porn and in the act. They see people hurting from violence and abuse.
You just have to be willing to work with what you have. A female reader, anonymous, writes 17 June 2010 : I also am dating a cop. I can't be with him anymore without a his phone constantly in his palms, texting and ignoring our relationship. He would give his phone number out to women he met on his job and had them calling all hours of the night and he would lie and tell me that he had to go into work, and I would find out later that he wasn't at work. I think she does deserve to see the man she's marrying that perhaps hides behind adjectives that describe his uniform but not him. Now that it's been a year later, I am still picking up the pieces, but I am making way on this upward climb and having weekly talks with a couselor.
A female reader, anonymous, writes 31 July 2010 : I also work in the Law Enforcement field as a parole officer and I am dating a cop. The Grade, a scroll-through type dating app that. I understand how frustrating it can be! I know a lot of people are going to disagree with me, but this is just first hand information. He controls what we can talk about, when we can talk about it, when there is sex and any kind of affection, to how we interact with each other. Everything an officer does on or off duty can be fair game for citizen complaints and even internal investigations if she's a police officer. But I love him, and weve agreed that his work stays at work. My boyfriend and I are struggling because I am never available, and when I am, I am exhausted.