She also has 2 sisters both 15. Women are monogamous by nature because evolution rewarded women who were able to secure a man. Anyway our sex life still stayed great until around March or so i think. Why has your sex drive dipped? She usually ends up having sex with me out of pity really, after I tried my luck a couple of times in the same month. But I didn't say anything, afraid to her her feelings. Of course, the level of excitement cannot be maintained but we have a 9 year old grandson. I also feel vulnerable in the sense that if I ever find myself in a situation, where another woman propositions me for any sort of sexual intimacy, that I might act on it - purely out of the desperate need for sexual connection.
Those who experience depletion of desire can find it hard to comprehend how devastating that can be on their partner. But it might be worth a try! Libido is also not determined by how often a person has sex. Go forth and clam dive! Serious questions may need to be posed. Yeah she did still go to her exam, she had to in order to get more pills. There may also be a medical or therapeutic solution.
The wife never wants to play in the bed, she is always too busy or too tired. That is her main complaint about me. Also we have talked about it, she just doesn't seem to see things from my perspective. These anti depressants are helping her a lot, and I'm really glad they are so I never told her once that she should stop them. I, unfortunately, had to go back to Celexa bad for libido because Lexapro made me shed more than my cat.
The fact your friend thinks her husband may take a mistress if she turned him down thrice on the trot says more about her relationship than yours. Eventually, we decided to just start by reducing strength of what I was already on. What then can you expect after 5 years? So lets consider for a moment. That could include positive things about what you are looking forward to, and clarifying what you both are expecting long term. This past month, our intimacy levels have severely dropped. And the first step is understanding the cause s behind your lack of sex drive. We are committed and our relationship is going on strong for three years now.
Now i am afraid that if i mention it again she will get upset and say that its all i care about and that she just doesnt make me happy or somthing like that. I am not saying that it is entirely her that has put a stop to it, but if it has something to do with you she has not communicated it yet. If this reveals deeper relationship or sexual problem a therapist could help. Stop fearing that you are going to lose her or else you will. I am getting my affairs in order, and I will vanish with a Dear Jane. If sex is not right, then naturally it will upset you. It probably wouldn't of happened much at all if I didn't engage her.
It would be very different if that side to your relationship had faded also. We hug and give pecks on the lips, that is absolutely it. Not to mention all the rejection that comes along with it. This is why when we do fight it can drag on and it takes us some time to get on the same page again. She will never initiate anything with you because you have nice guy syndrome.
We are very lovey-dovey like, being cutsy and peck kisses, and playing around, but I have to beg him to have sex with me at least once a month. I'm not a doctor, but I believe I have enough common sense to give you some advice. She just hasn't really shown me at all during the 7 years. I'd understand if you said she hardly ever touches you when you're together. I do this because I love her and want her to be happy.
For me, that would mean a couple months, not years. But there was a time where I ran out of my prescription and couldn't get it for about three days. For example, vulvodynia, lichen planus or. Or atleast give me a positive response when i said it to her. To Monolog I want to say, your situation is serious, and you do have to address it. Better a small argument now than a big argument later, plus all this time's silent suffering.