There will always be struggles and adversity in life, and we do well to remember that we can all always aspire to do better and become better! I had a baby at 41. Their children were brothers and sisters. You knew that it's really a big mistake but why did you do that?!!! Your decisions are between you and her. Anytime you lower your sperm count, then yes, it is harder to get a girl pregnant. Not that there's anything I would've been able to do - and we both didn't want a child.
These are people I am legally required to be in contact with, and not much more than that. It would be incredibly unfair to take frustrations out on the kid. I think you really need to find out if she intends to keep the baby. Look, I know I messed up, but Im willing to do what's right, if I could find someplace that allows 17 year olds to marry their older first cousins, which I think is something that would be important to her, even though Im not exactly a devout christian Im very open minded and willing to do the right thing - if I just knew what that was!. Thank you for being one of the rare good guys in this world! Whatever your decision and her decision is, make sure you are completely positive that it is correct.
I agree with some cultures who don't have sex until marrige, when your in a supported and loving relationship then you have the support to bring up the child, I've had sex before too but never ever again as when I did I just complelety worried afterward so I just don't do it at all. Did it ever occur to you she might be using you for a way out? If my Dad back home in Houston finds out I got a girl knocked up, he's gonna stop paying for my college, my apartment, all my living expenses, and my truck, as well as the fact I might not get a position in my Dad's company when I graduate. I was very young and hopelessly infatuated with him and he kept fueling it by continuing to have sex with me. Thanks for the update, Phil, and I'm so glad you didn't listen to all the bad advice you were given. Could I have gotten her pregnant and would the symptoms set on so quickly? I was going to tell you to be honest with your kid at some point, That you don't really love him or her, but I'm not sure you should be. Later that day a very respected and honest friend of mine told me that the other guys were lying. I would never let the kid be homeless or starve at any age, but aside form that, he can make his own choices.
This is a place for those that need support. But I sometimes wonder if I might have been an okay mother to the beautiful daughter I had to give up for adoption when I was 14. Having a baby changes everything but the love you feel for and have from them is worth everything. Does that mean women should get lesser penalties when they assault a man because they are generally able to do less damage? If it's anyone's mistake it's hers for either a. We have a rather complicated family tree of our own, needless to say I place more weight on the info our family genetics specialist gives us than on studies found from an Internet search engine. You can bet the first nations cultures of America married their cousins.
Just because someone gets pregnant, does not mean that couple should automatically marry. It's almost like since they had to work at love they know what it's worth and don't want to fall out of it. Well i started sweating, got real pale, and began to feal faint. If it's true, and you don't love your child, why would you invite them to be with your family or to spend time with you? I express love towards the child, and I know it is not his fault for being alive, but I really hate the mother for forcing me to become someone and something I never wanted or chose to be. You've got to be joking. Sorry, I couldn't avoid the challenge.
At first I was like 'Huh, how about that? I'm not calling someone who pulls out a virgin, assuming that's the other one you meant. Numbers have reached remarkable levels, and this situation has led to the involvement of some educationalists to put a limit on this matter, but how could these wise people reform a sex-crazed society? Whether that be, providing support for his baby momma threw the pregnancy and adoption process, or to have to pay child support whatever. She can do whatever she wants with it, you get no say in it. I'm going to explain to her that I would not like to keep it, but if she decides she wants it I will be there to support her as the baby's father but not as her other half. If used properly, with avoiding 14-17 days, using both birth control methods, I can gaurentee you no baby will come. I would hate to see people believe everything you posted from that website that does not have accurate information, since it is very skewed.
And for some neither is the bible. You have to be sexually active to be pregnant, which you shouldn't be 12! Hope the girl screws you well for maintenance for the next 18 years If she's decided to keep the baby, I honestly doubt you can change her mind. Wow this young lady came here posting out of concern and probably hoping to find some support and in the responses she got I didn't see a single one that gave her any encouragement such a shame. Personally I feel like men deserve a choice in parenthood as much as women, in that women can have an abortion and so men should be given the choice of a legal abortion of responsibility. Good luck and best wishes. But around 14 or 15 days of my previous period I had bleeding for 2 days it had usual bleeding color.
Phil, I hope you and your cousin got everything sorted out for the best. Our culture do not provide pregnancy test and abortion too. They do the same research to try to find answers and from schooling to become a doctor. If you've been using a lot of Test for several months, then there's a good chance your sperm count is down to significantly less than 1 million, when you normally shoot out 10 + million of the little guys. My cousin and her fathers parents are extremely close, even though her Dad will forever be out of the picture. Unfortunately, this symptom usually only gets worse as the pregnancy progresses. If they don't want get pregnant, they should not have sex before marrige.