It is fair to point out that it takes 2 to make a baby. My child has to take the heat for his actions. Remember, if you get married, make sure you keep your credit card and your checking account separate. Some time later I also came to find out that she had been married multiple times before - had I known that I would have never ever continued with this. And I bet some of your mothers were single mothers! You just have to be careful not everyone is level headed. I can relate to it completely on both sides.
Or pit two baby daddies against each other. I think it's misogynistic and most men on here have probably never had a real relationshio let alone a healthy one. And he rarely ever gets called up to play. A person without kids can have a lot of bs, baggage, and issues just as much or less as a person without kids. I'm a successful entrepreneur, and I even taught the oldest one the basics of starting up a business, and coached him for weeks until he quit. I am just being honest here; I am not trying to offend anyone. The narcissism and entitlement that is normative for both single men and women is not a luxury that is typically available to single moms.
I can assure you of that. Crazy ex's aren't always baby daddy's or ex husbands. I dumped her bcus she was too insecure, always thinking am gonna end up like her babydaddy plus she keep adding weight. I'm not saying your judging, you seem like a decent guy. Nowadays the Law has gone to the other extreme. I become tired of men who try to pressure me into having more kids!!! I understand that in most cases, this article sadly speaks the truth. Wives initiate 70%, and in some reports up to 90%, of divorces.
Any man that has self respect and values himself will not do this. I'm serious- I was the lead vocalist in a nationally touring band, and an undefeated prizefighter. Otherwise I can swear to you, that it is going to hurt you more than it will hurt her. Each relationship has had varying degrees of the issues here: sometimes it was more single mom didn't set boundaries for their ex and was deep in debt. She has two kids, one who's a little shit who kicks things and doesnt take orders like go clean your room and a bratty young girl entering her pre-teens she gave birth to this girl in her teens so with these two products of a poor relationship I can only picture the two kids as a cyclone and large lightning ready to take me out.
My children's father and I are no longer together but he does an excellent job raising our children and we co-parent as a team. In the beginning they try to make it seem like you got a good woman. I learned from it and because of that, will not date another single mom. But four months later when she gets comfortable. Interesting article but definitely not my experience in the last 8 years as a single mom.
Have you read the comments here of of men who have been involved with single mothers? She's already had that fling with the bad boy and now she wants a sucker to support her and that guy's kids. Real men don't scrape the bottom of the barrel. You can practically feel the neck rolling and eye snapping. I will wake up and go to work and it will start all over again. There is entitlement in wanting someone without kids who still looks good and has time and money while expecting them to put up with your own. And I will have dates cancelled because of them, not go out because of them, have to take them along to kid-friendly places, and have to arrange and pay for babysitters.
. I came into the relationship not wanting anything. Holla at a Brotha Bruh, Most women are emotional thinkers. Maybe those who are over 40 and have never married or had children are the ones with problem. When the kid acts all naughty and hyper.
Men will mostly engage with single mothers to gain access to easy sex. And a lot of work. On our second date, he went over to her house, kicked the babysitter out and called her saying he was going to kill himself in front of their son if she didn't come home so that date ended early and I was smart enough to walk away from that short lived relationship all together. Ya know, my ex-husband after we married , said that he would have never married me if I had kids. I don't want or need a man to support me.
In fact I have a protection order against him. I never had my own children, but dammit I have needs too. I make no generalizations, I have seen all that I have written about. A friend to them, sure. This is what women don't understand.